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Self-Publishing a New Book

I’ve been MIA for a while, and I have a good reason. I’m testing the waters with self-publishing physical copies of my new book! Pre-orders are coming soon, likely by November. I’m planning a cover reveal on October 31st, just to keep up the hype.

More importantly though, I’m hoping to chronicle the steps taken towards self-publishing, to give you a better idea of what to expect.

After shopping around and reading reviews, I’ve decided to go with Lulu – which I’m sure you’ve heard of. I’ve heard great things, but also horrific stories about misprints. I’m going in with high hopes and low expectations, as I do with most things. The plan is to start small (which is good for any small time writer out there). Scaling up is the goal, so I’m setting realistic expectations for myself. I only plan on getting x amount of copies, and I only need to sell half to break even.

Think of it this way:

1.) You write a book that’s about 200-300 pages.

2.) You need approximately $200 to get 20 copies. Add in whatever the cost of shipping will be (and I mean shipping to your customers, the $200 included basic shipping from Lulu).

3.) Sell your book anywhere between $15 and $20. You’ll see a profit.

It’s remarkably easy to get this done – just keep your expectations realistic. You’re not gonna become a millionaire, but you’ll be on the right path.

Talent Versus Skill

You’re going to be rejected. A lot.

Like, a WHOLE lot.

And it will hurt, every single time.

I’m not saying you should give up – in fact, this blog is to say the opposite.

Writing is, controversially enough, a talent and a skill. There are some people, I’ve discovered, who pick a side – but for what reason? If you’re capable of practicing and honing your craft, it becomes a skill. Yes, there are some people who are naturally capable of telling a story, and hooking an audience with their words. Technically, that’s a natural talent.

They can absolutely co-exist.

So if you don’t have that natural-born talent, it doesn’t mean you should give up. It means you need to bust your ass twice as hard. Three times as hard. You have every chance of getting published, or recognized for your work.

Those born with talent still need to practice. Writing is an especially difficult skill, considering you are constantly evolving. I’m a better writer now than I was two weeks ago.

When I say constant, I mean it.

Some of the key things to improving your skill or talent (whichever category you fall under):

1.) Write more.

It should be obvious, but still, I have to say it. Write everyday if you can. Not necessarily on your projects, but whatever comes to mind.

2.) READ more.

Find authors that inspire you. Read everything you can from them. Notice their style of storytelling, or whatever speaks to you most. This can help you find your own voice.

3.) Find an editor you vibe with.

This matters a lot more than you might think. You want to be on the same page as your editor, because it makes the critiques easier to swallow. You want to trust your editor and know they’re only telling you what you need to hear, in order to sell the best version of your book.

They’ll tell you when your writing is lazy, or when you’re using words that no one knows just so you can feel smart (don’t ever talk down to your audience, by the way).

4.) Good writing is rewriting.

Be prepared to start back from square one. Yes, you can cry about it. Maybe have some s’mores flavored liquor or a couple cigarettes. Eat an entire pizza by yourself. Take your moment; I understand.

But understand, at the end of the day: rewriting your story will only make it more powerful. With each new version, you have something that you previously didn’t.

With all of this in mind, I want to reiterate: it does not matter if you have talent, or if it’s just a skill you work on.

If you put in the time, effort, and dedication – maybe a blood sacrifice here or there – you can become the writer you want to be.

30 Day Character Building Challenge

Day Thirty


For the last day of our journey, I wanna keep it simple.

You would be surprised how often people struggle with decent dialogue.

An easy enough trick is to hold these conversations with yourself. It sounds and feels crazy, but the payoff is worth it. If a line sounds wrong coming from your mouth, it’s possible it reads with the same awkwardness.

Make sure your characters sound different – you want to be able to tell who’s speaking when you read. If the characters start to morph into one person, they become boring!

30 Day Character Building Challenge

Day Twenty-Nine

There are no second chances for a first impression.

Your opening scene needs to matter. You need to decide where and why that scene is the best point for someone to dive into your protagonists’ life.

Here are some quick tips:

1.) Provide just a taste of their inner mind/wound. Bait and hook the reader.

2.) Don’t describe their age or clothes unless it actually matters in the moment. Those are things you can drop subtly (if at all) later.

3.) Share with the reader a glimpse of their everyday life.

4.) Use ACTIONS to convey their personality.

For example, I started a small project with a character called Hogarth.

When we meet him in the opening scene, he’s repeating directions to himself, while grasping the straps of his backpack with both hands. He flinches when people walk too close, and is quick to swerve out of anyone’s way.

Already, you can start to visualize him. From his name, to his actions – you understand something about this character. There were no mentions of age or appearance, either.

30 Day Character Building Challenge

Day Twenty-Eight

Originality is dead.

I know. This sucks to hear and maybe it’s been beaten over your head a million times, but that just proves my point.

Every idea has been done, in some shape or form.

The key is to realize that every idea can come in a million flavors.

It’s up to you to figure out that profile.

This isn’t so much an exercise as it is a reminder.

You’ve built your characters from the ground up. That makes them original. That makes them yours.

That being said, it never hurts to read more books and watch more movies/television to prove it to yourself… and study.

30 Day Character Building Challenge

Day Twenty-Seven

Evolution is key.

Recently, I got reminded of that Tom Hanks’ movie “Big.” I thought the timing was perfect, because it’s a great example of what I wanna talk about today.

In the movie, the character Josh desires to rush into adulthood, as he is embarrassed by his childish shortcomings. When the wish is granted, he’s suddenly an adult that has to fend for himself.

It’s a simple enough set up, and interesting conflict.

Through the beginning, he’s still very much himself – just in an adult body. He enjoys the simple things adulthood offers, like being able to buy whatever you want, see any movie, and basically enjoy all around freedom. Who didn’t want a giant trampoline in their living room as a kid?

But as time goes on, he takes on more adult responsibility, and begins to mature as a person. He realizes this isn’t sustainable, because he is a child – and that’s a huge turning point for him.

As sad as he is to leave his adult life behind, he returns to childhood – and we understand he’ll be okay through it, because of the journey he went through.

He evolves as a character, finding where his priorities lie, and maturing enough to understand that being an adult means… being an adult.

Look at the arc you’ve built for your character, and make sure that their ending is satisfying. Does it make sense with all that they’ve gone through? How much is too much for them to face?

30 Day Character Building Challenge

Day Twenty-Six

Plotting, structure, evolution – oh my.

For the next three days, we’re gonna talk about how the evolution of our characters can heavily determine the plot.

Even if you’re not an “outliner,” it’s worth taking the time to consider your characters. This is their story, after all.

Start a fresh document, and write you opening scene with everything you’ve learned about your protagonist in mind. Is there more you can add to layer in some nuance?

Think about some of the opening scenes in your favorite books or movies. Try to pick out from the very beginning what traits and emotions the protagonist possesses.

30 Day Character Building Challenge

Day Twenty-Five

Set them up, and knock ’em down.

Have you ever heard that how people respond to conflict reveals a lot about them? The same goes for your characters. These choices present the chance to create empathy, therein giving your readers moments to identify with the protagonist (or supporting characters, or even the villains).

Each choice ideally should be bringing them closer to the transformation in their arc, one step at a time – though it’s definitely fine if this sometimes takes them a step back. The journey is the most important part.

An easy way to create the setup of your story, is by using character choices. Leave nuggets of information about how a character responds to situations, therefore making it more believable when they use this skillset to overcome issues later. The readers will know (and believe) them capable of it.

Earlier in this challenge, I asked you to write a list of what your villain could do to upset/provoke the protagonist.

It’s time to expand.

Think about the protagonist and their skill set. Think of how they respond to high pressure and conflict. How will their skills help them overcome what the antagonist throws at them?

Each of these obstacles and subsequent choices are creating the setup and payoff of your story.

30 Day Character building Challenge

Day Twenty-Four

What if you’re wrong?

The exercise for today might break your heart, but it’s necessary.

Go through a list of the supporting characters, and tell the story as if it’s theirs to tell. See what they bring to the table, what might change, etc.

Does this add something to the story?

It’s entirely possible that your main character isn’t ready to be the lead.

This is especially true if you’re guilty of self-inserting. No offense to Stephen King – I am a huge fan – but he does this quite often. His side characters always compel me so much more than his protagonist.

See and decide if the story is worth telling through a different set of eyes. Maybe it’ll be even better.